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  • Unlearning at 30,000 Feet: Reflections on Change and Growth

    January 9th, 2025

    I have always been fascinated by how thought-provoking flights can be. Knowing that you are by yourself with little to no real connection to the rest of the world for a few hours allow you some quality time to self-reflect. As you hear the clicking sound of feelings from experiences settling in their rightful places in your brain and the revelations that you deducted out of those learnings keep flowing into your mind in disguise of fancy words, you find yourself regretting having left your laptop in the overhead compartment.

    Nowadays, there is another hot topic that never ceases to impress me. The pace at which we are experiencing change lately has reached a level to cause unlearning to become more important than learning. Regardless of the level of our potential, we are all operating with a limited set of resources. Even the most well-endowed person would be limited with the energy and time available to them at any given time. Information flow, on the other hand, is accumulating through the collective effort of most of humanity and progressing at a much faster pace than a single person can absorb.

    Unlike the previous generations, we no longer have the luxury to be able to accumulate experience and knowledge that will lead us to a peaceful retirement. Unlearning is now a more essential skill than learning in the first place, as we need the freed-up processing power and peace of mind to be able to re-learn new things from scratch rather than running into conflicts with the current (well, previous) status quo.

    The next generation? They bring a ton of energy to the equation and are very well-situated as well as promising to shape a better future for themselves, as opposed to what we have been able to achieve so far. On the flip side, being as successful in having their voice heard at an earlier stage in life comes with its consequences. This might be the first generation in the last decade that actually managed to pull off having their demand to learn by themselves through experience embraced by their predecessors. This means they will first go through the partial recurrence of history in disguise, before forming more settled opinions around life.

    This is a very exciting time for the ones that are actively participating in the game of life and striving to contribute and be part of the newly shaping world order. As the battery of the laptop slowly drains and the flight is beginning to descend, humble recommendation is to make an intentional effort to constantly remember challenging ourselves and others on what can be unlearned to prioritize what’s important at the time. Also, make the decision that has been lingering, try a new approach, take the flight. If the initial intention is genuine, it will all be worth it.

  • 2025

    January 1st, 2025

    First day of the new year is perfect timing for a fresh start. Reflections on the past year don’t help much with building a life from scratch, six thousand miles away from your hometown. Neither does new year resolutions.

    What counts when you are trying to establish a new life is mostly focusing on the next thing that you need to achieve, as well as constantly taking care of your own physical and mental well-being with an intentional effort to wake up self-motivated next day to keep building on the little foundation that you have in the new location.

    Even the smallest achievements count to carry yourself towards the next one and eventually to tangible results that will motivate you further to keep going.

    As you strive to keep yourself together while juggling multiple priorities, unexpected surprises, like a welcoming smile or a gesture, help you keep the hope for brighter days ahead alive.

    The decision to change countries at mid-life on your own is not one to be made randomly. No matter how much you think it through, life will keep happening in its unique way.

    If you manage to embrace change in the way that we all have to when it comes to observing the weather change with seasons, adaptation follows naturally just like wearing the right clothes for the weather instantly make you feel better.

    Avoiding change for longer than needed results in getting trapped in the illusion that we are in control of our lives and what will happen next. Taking a step forward comes together with its own risks and rewards, but most importantly a humbling experience that teaches you no other can. One that makes you realize that you were never in control anyways.

    It would be fair to say that most people are fans of summer rather than winter. However, it’s often the effort in winter that leads to a rewarding summer. Even before that, winter has so much to offer including tranquility as soon as the turbulence is over.

    Let’s keep the first chapter concise, with hopes that it will be a consistent practice of writing throughout the year and beyond. Only thing to leave the ones who made it to the end of the essay is:

    If you have something in mind, make an intentional effort to pause thinking about it for a while and for once, act on it this time. I promise, you will have plenty of time to keep thinking on the go.

    To new beginnings and a wonderful 2025.

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